About 6 minutes
Meet your relationship style as it really is.
For each statement, choose how closely it reflects the way you have actually been over the past year.
- 01
Think about patterns that have shown up repeatedly
Answer based on how you have repeatedly acted across different relationships, rather than who you hope to be or one unusual experience.
- 02
Answer the first 20 questions on a five-point scale
For each statement, choose the one response that best matches how you have actually been over the past year.
- Not at all like me
- Mostly unlike me
- It depends on the situation
- Mostly like me
- Almost always like me
- 03
Choose your real action for the final 10 questions
In each situation, choose what you would most likely do first, rather than the action that seems ideal or impressive.
- 04
Complete the test in one sitting if you can
Your answers and result stay only in this browser tab and disappear automatically when you close it.
Your choices are kept only on the current test screen. Answer all 30 questions across three pages of 10.
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